Wife Beater Shirt Optional

There is no dress code for domestic violence


“Wife Beater” shirts are a stereotype not a style. Not all perpetrators of domestic violence wear “Wife Beater” shirts and not all victims are weak, helpless or female...men can be victims too. Domestic abuse is not a problem confined to any specific socio-economic group, race, or to heterosexual relationships. It’s also important to understand that physical violence is not the only type of domestic abuse. Mental, emotional and psychological abuse are also a form of domestic violence. Wife Beater Shirt Optional helps to dispel the many stereotypes and misconceptions surrounding domestic violence and the resulting trauma. This book is a no nonsense discussion about the types of abuse, the cycle of violence, the issue of power and control, the types of trauma and the symptoms of trauma. Unlike a standard textbook approach to presenting the information, Dr. Laura Streyffeler provides a casual, direct, therapy-styled perspective. Each topic contains realistic but fictional examples which are then followed by a practical and often frank discussion based on real life counseling experiences. After unraveling the myths surrounding domestic violence, trauma and the reasons victims stay in abusive relationships, tools for assessing the types and extent of the abuse and practical safety planning for leaving an abusive relationship are provided. If you or a loved one question whether you are in, or suspect that you are in, an abusive relationship this book is written specifically for you.

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Wife Beater Shirt Optional is timely given the hundreds of accounts of sexual harassment claims surfacing today from men and women nationwide.

This book expertly puts to rest any stereotypes folks may have surrounding what abuse looks like. It's a direct step-by-step guide to help victims acknowledge
the abuse, deal with fixing it, both at homes and in the courts and finally and perhaps most importantly moving on past it.

A great resource for experts and every person who has ever been in a relationship.

Dave Elias

Chief Political Correspondent
NBC-2 News
Fort Myers, FL 33901
NBC-2 Investigations

Learn about domestic violence from an expert who shares stories that will help you understand this complex subject.

This book is powerful! Dr. Laura Streyffeler has done a masterful job of sharing her experience with clients in a way that really brings home the reality of domestic violence, trauma and abuse. If you are victim of domestic violence or a counselor seeking a better understanding of this complex topic, this would be an excellent book for you to include in your library.

Pamela W Peterson
Purchased on Amazon
February 22, 2018

A Must-Read!

This book is EXCELLENT! The chapters on Intimate partner lethality, trauma and triggers, & cycles of violence were especially interesting (mind blowing!) to me. This book helped me understand events and reactions in my past, and things friends are going through now. Thank you SO MUCH for writing this! It should be a must-read for everybody!!!

Amazon Customer
Kindle Edition Purchased on Amazon
March 8, 2018

I’ve learned so much from this book and I would recommend it to anyone

This book opened my eyes and made me realize that domestic violence isn’t just about physical violence. I’ve learned so much from this book and I would recommend it to anyone.

Paperback Purchased on Amazon
December 6, 2017

Eye opening!

Very enlightening, has profoundly open my eyes. The author makes her point directly without a lot of unnecessary fluff.
Very beneficial, highly recommend.

Amazon Customer
Paperback Purchased on Amazon
January 7, 2018

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